Daniel Murphy adding more fuel to the fire. |
I pictured newly acquired
Chicago Cub Daniel Murphy standing at home plate at Wrigley Field this Sunday
in front of a mic during the Out at Wrigley event. My dream, perhaps delusion, would be that
Murphy would address the crowd, Lou Gehrig-like, and walk back his homophobic
comments from three years ago, which angered LGBTQ folks and allies around the
nation.
Those words were stated while as
a New York Met at a time when many people were tricked into thinking that
homophobia was on the wane following the Supreme Court’s decision making
marriage equality the law of the land.
Murphy was asked a question about Major League Baseball’s Ambassador
for Inclusion, Billy Bean, a former major league baseball player who came out
as gay following his career.
“I disagree with his lifestyle,”
Murphy said, citing his faith. “I do disagree with the fact that Billy is a
homosexual. That doesn’t mean I can’t still invest in him and get to know him.
I don’t think the fact that someone is a homosexual should completely shut the
door on investing in them in a relational aspect.” Since then, Murphy had
become friends with Bean.
In a commentary in The Guardian on August 23, Parker Molloy,
who is lesbian, wrote: “The truth is that saying you ‘disagree with the fact that [somebody] is a
homosexual’ is homophobic. It’s like somebody saying ‘I disagree with your
hair,’ ‘I disagree with your race,’ or ‘I disagree with your gender’. In all
three examples you can say that you don’t like someone’s hair, race or gender;
but it’s not exactly yours to disagree with in terms of existence. The same
goes for the statement, ‘I disagree with his lifestyle’.
Molloy adds, “Being gay is no
more of a ‘lifestyle’ than being straight is, and treating it as such is
honestly pretty demeaning to those of us in the LGBT community. It suggests
that we’re lesser, that we’re broken, that we’re wrong for being who we are.
It’s hurtful, plain and simple.”
But any aspiration that Murphy,
33, would show that he evolved and perhaps backed off from those comments was
dashed when he was told at a presser that Cubs fans are unhappy he joined the
team because of his anti-gay stance and would not root for the team.
In a mocking tone, he said, “Oh
dear. I would hope you would root for the Cubs.”
Those comments are shown below.
Daniel Murphy on his relationship with Billy Beane and LGBTQA #Cubs fans pic.twitter.com/68WivcVTSr— Laurence Holmes (@LaurenceWHolmes) August 23, 2018
Cyd Zeigler of OUTsports, a website that discusses the intersection of sports and the LGBTQ community, opined:
“'Oh dear,' he said, as he looked off dismissively into space. In other
words: These gay people are just so damn overly sensitive when Christians like
me say they bad things about them.”
Added Zeigler, “He went on with
a I-couldn’t-care-less-what-those-gays-think answer about how gay fans should
continue to cheer for the Cubs.”
After being unsigned by the
Mets, Murphy was picked up by the Washington Nationals—a team which benefited
from Murphy’s strong batting—and who holds annual Nights Out at the Ballpark. Though the controversy regarding his
homophobic comments did not overtly surface in the district, which has the
highest percentage of LGBTQ people in the nation, and no other similar public
comments were made during his tenure in D.C., some were still wary at the
outset.
“We expressed our concerns to
the Nats about this as well as when Yunel Escobar was traded to the team a
couple of years before,” said Brent Minor, Executive Director of Team DC,
the organizers of Night Out. “During one
Night OUT game, we worked with MLB to have Billy Bean come and speak to the team
about diversity and inclusion.
Minor indicated that he had a
conversation with Bean in which he was told that Bean spoke directly to Murphy
and while acknowledging he still held deeply religious views on the topic, felt
he was heard and respected.
Minor went on to tout the
Nationals and their support of Team DC and the Night Out series.
“They even had the Gay Men’s
Chorus of Washington ‘sing’ their holiday card that is sent to all season
ticket holders a few years back.” He also saluted pitchers Max Scherzer and
Sean Doolittle for their vocal support of the LGBTQ community.
According to the Chicago Sun-Times, Cubs General Manager
Jed Hoyer reached out to Billy Bean prior to the trade and the Cubs was
satisfied with his response.
It will be interesting to see
what the fans’ reaction may be upon Murphy’s introduction during Out at Wrigley
on August 26. The second such event held this year at Wrigley, and which bills
itself as “The Nation’s Original MLB Gay Day,” is intended to celebrate the
LGBTQ community. Wrigley Field is just outside the iconic gay “Boystown”
neighborhood and the Cubs is the only MLB team with openly gay owner in Laura
Ricketts.
I would suspect that many fans would back
Murphy because they see the LGBTQ community in the same light. Others clearly
would be angered.
But oh dear, don’t expect him to apologize.